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Tuesday 23 February 2016

Create a Ripple Effect in Your Dating Life

Do you know why it's smart to talk to anyone, anywhere, even if that person doesn't seem to be your type? Well, if you throw a pebble into the dating pool, it can have a significant ripple effect that is sure to benefit you.

Having a genuine interest in getting to know new people and keeping an open mind while you're networking might end up being more valuable than you think. You never know who that person might introduce you to in the future. Similarly, if you meet someone you like, but you don't feel a love connection, why not offer to set him or her up with a friend? One good turn deserves another, I say.

Think twice before you turn down an invitation to a party or an opportunity to expand your network of friends and potential dates. Seek like-minded people who can introduce you to colleagues of a similar quality. Expanding your network will ensure a life rich with opportunity and happy times.

Tuesday 16 February 2016

Keep It Simple: Go Back to the Basics of Dating


Some people say technology has shifted our dating experiences. The introduction of apps and social media means that people don't have to be introduced face-to-face with a brief 90 word description at a cocktail mixer by a mutual friend.

Others say that 30s is the new 20s, where people are waiting a decade or two before looking for the one. More years means more knowledge about what we want in our lives . . . and that makes it harder to find the one. 

And there are a few that says the rules always seem to be in flux. Do I call her? Text her? What if she doesn't IM back? Do I wait before making a move?

Here's my thought on all the above: it doesn't have to be that complicated. 

Let's look at the simple definition of dating: getting to know someone better and figuring out if you want to see them again. That's all that has to happen on a date. 

The dating world hasn't changed. It still honors the basics that you learned in kindergarten: Be yourself. Laugh at the things your find funny. Tell someone you like them. Share your opinions. Wear your geeky t-shirt. Let people know the real you.

Don't fall into the "what ifs" or "should Is" spiral. If you want to see them again, tell them. If you want to talk to them, call them. If you want to meet them for coffee, ask them. 

It's really that simple.

Tuesday 9 February 2016

Ideas for People You Love (But Can't Date or Marry) or Care A Lot About

Valentine's Day is not just about being in a relationship.  It's not just about a boyfriend or a girlfriend.  It is about showing those you care about that you love them and are grateful they are in your life.

Tuesday 2 February 2016

Wait! 3 Reasons to Hold Off on Getting Engaged on Valentine's Day

It's easy with red paper heart decorations popping up in grocery stores and window displays at the mall to start thinking about popping the question. But before you invest in a ring or practice taking a knee, there are a few things to consider.


Why Are You Asking?

Is it because you can see yourself together for many years to come? Can you imagine investing in a house, two cars, a family and eventually a retirement home . . . together? Or are you feeling a bit of pressure from the lover's holiday? Family? Your significant other? If you are considering proposing for any other reason than the want to start a life with them, can it. It will save you heartache in the long run. Because it's the 14th is never a good reason.


Is It Love or Settling?

Surprisingly, many people fall into the trap of committing to someone because "they will do." Maybe they are tired of dating. Perhaps a person believes this is as good as it is going to get for them in the love department (usually a self-esteem issue). Either way, many people find themselves "settling" for what they believe is the best they can get. Times have changed. We are no longer fishing for a mate in our backyard ponds. With the Internet and openness to move, the dating pool is huge. If you aren't gaga over the guy or gal in your life, reel in the relationship and recast your line. You (and the other person) will be happier for it.

Go For Broke -- Just Not on Valentine's Day

I know. I know. It's a day of romance. Florist, card shops and chocolatiers love it. If you want to make an impression on your significant other, don't follow the recipe of doing the deed on a commercial holiday. Make it special for the two of you. Take the proposal up a notch but avoiding the cliche of doing it on February 14th. Create a special day that is just for the two of you.